ENJOYING SEX AS A WOMAN & ENDING MANIPULATION INDOCTRINATION with “God Is Grey,” Brenda Marie Davies — Progressive Christianity — Toxic Purity Culture — Abusive Religious Beliefs — Sexual Integrity & Sex Ed VS. Purity Culture — Mutuality and Consent — Exvangelical — Reconstruction of Faith — Self-Improvement —

How can I enjoy sex and end the manipulative indoctrinated thoughts that play in my head like a broken record? Let’s ask Brenda Marie Davies, host of the Youtube channel and podcast, God is Grey.

I am so excited to have my dear friend and fellow spiritual influencer, “God is Grey,” back on Enlightened the podcast. In fact, she is the first guest to ever come on the show TWICE! Well, it’s no surprise because her first episode was the most downloaded show yet! So of course, I had to have her back to dive deeper into indoctrination and reconstruction of sexual integrity.

Brenda always opens her show with this line, “Although I as a Christian believe that God resides in absolute truth, in black and white, we as people, are stuck here on planet earth contending with the grey. In church, grey areas often cause dissension, anger and even hate…but on this platform, I welcome open dialogue from a variety of opinion and differing belief systems.” And that’s just what we are going to do here.

On this week’s episode of ENLIGHTENED, I am honored to have an open dialogue with, progressive, freethinking, sex positive Christian influencer, Brenda Marie Davies. You don’t have to be a Christian to enjoy this episode!! This girl is on fire for Jesus, but also a lover of people that the traditional church may have ostracized — and she isn’t afraid to stand up for what she believes in. I love watching her viral Youtube videos, and I know you will appreciate her perspective on the show.

Every time I consume Brenda’s content, I know more about God, myself, and understand my brain a little better…because she reveals how, as traditional Christians, the church may have indoctrinated us with concepts that have actually caused symptoms much like PTSD in our adult lives. Brenda is not only extremely well-researched and well-read before she creates a video, she is prayerful and intentional in covering topics from not only Biblical perspectives, but scientific and sociological perspectives as well. So let’s muse on these tough issues like why progressive Christians and traditionalists don’t seem to get along…and process why us 90s Christian kids (especially women) have developed anxiety and shame about sex!

Today’s show covers topics like:

  • how some churches use indoctrination to manipulate women
  • what purity culture has done to our minds and bodies
  • what sexual consent and mutuality looks like
  • what living with sexual integrity looks like
  • why sexual integrity is the answer to the purity and hookup culture problems
  • what is the difference between consent within marriage and single life? (spoiler alert: NOTHING)

Stay in touch with God is Grey:

It’s time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One! 

The love of God inside of me honors the love in you. Namaste, My Friends.

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With infinite love and gratitude, I pray that peace be with you. xo Sophia (@SophiaSpallino on Instagram)

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