OUR LOVE STORY REVEALED with Robert Croak (my age gap boyfriend) — Relationship Advice — How We Met — Conscious Partnership — Age Gap Relationship — Manifesting Your Soul Mate — Self-Improvement —
Let’s take an honest look at our LOVE STORY with my boyfriend, Robert Croak, creator of Sillybandz! On this episode, we share our tips for a happy, healthy, conscious partnership…even with 28 years between us!
I am so excited to have my man, who is my personal business coach, world-renowned entrepreneur, and product development consultant on Enlightened! In fact, without him encouraging me, this show would most likely not exist.
Today’s show covers topics like:
- Our love story timeline
- How we met online
- What it was like to meet someone in real life after a month
- Was Robert worried I was a gold digger?
- Long distance relationship tips
- Is 28 years apart too much?
- Does my bisexuality affect our relationship?
- How do you know when someone is the one?
- Does an age gap make the relationship more challenging?
- Our relationship tips for a happy, healthy, conscious partnership
- Does working with your partner add challenges to your relationship?
Stay in touch with Robert:
Robert J. Croak is a highly recognized entrepreneur due to the wildly successful Sillybandz brand that he created. Robert’s journey started out with his lower-class upbringing in the Eastside of Toledo, Ohio in a broken home. His childhood was turbulent, as the divorce of his parents created a life of instability through his teenage years; but regardless of heart-wrenching setbacks, he never lost focus of his dreams. Much of Robert’s post-college career was spent in the automotive business where he was a salesman and quickly moved up to finance manager. But after a few years pursuing a nine to five career, Robert realized very early on that the entrepreneurial path was his destiny.
At the young age of 22-years-old Robert made his first full-time jump into owning his own business, the first of many. With a love for music and the unfortunate passing of his grandmother, Robert had the opportunity to purchase the family bar and restaurant “Frankie’s” made famous by his Grandfather, Frankie Andriaccio, and keep the legacy alive. Throughout the years, he continued to open more bars and restaurants, and his passion for the business only grew.
Although Robert had a nice run through the 1990s and into 2000s, he had a longing to expand into his true passion of inventing and branding. Equipped with a great staff, the transition to product development went well. In 2003, the company progressed very swiftly, and with this growth came a world of opportunities. For his personal fitness and wellbeing, Robert enjoyed running races and triathlons, and on one particular day Robert was given a yellow Livestrong bracelet. While already developing other similar products, Robert felt that the Livestrong bracelet concept could be expanded on, and the launch of “Custom Silicone Bracelets .com” brought the immediate realization that he was right. The business evolved very quickly; and over time, Robert expanded the custom product offerings beyond silicone bracelets.
Sillybandz fans always want to know how Robert came up with his multi-million-dollar idea. It all began when he visited a product show in China where he was given a very-poorly-shaped animal rubber band by a Japanese designer. Robert looked at the oddly shaped silicone in his hand and tried to see how the vague outline was actually intended to look like a dog. The Japanese seller told Robert that his rubber bands were to be sold as an office supply product. Although Robert felt that it would never sell as a novelty rubber band for adults, this very moment was the match that lit the fire of an incredible idea.
With wild entrepreneur instinct, Robert took the product back to his office in Toledo, Ohio and pitched the idea of making them into children’s bracelets, adding artistic detail, and calling them Sillybandz. The staff didn’t believe in it and didn’t think customers would invest in “silly silicone bracelets,” but Robert forged ahead with the design and manufacturing.
Many people assume Sillybandz was an instant hit, but that is far from the truth. Robert recalls, “It was a very slow build. With some key stores like Learning Express onboard, it slowly grew to a tipping point. But to this day, my mantra is ‘Always go with your gut,’ and I am so glad I did!” Not long after fortunate celebrity interactions, like Sarah Jessica Parker and Shakira wearing the bracelets, the Sillybandz brand grew momentum. Little did Robert know, his little idea was about to be the biggest bracelet trend the world had ever seen.
What happened over the next two and a half years was simply unheard of. Robert’s little Toledo, Ohio company was catapulted into the limelight and went from twelve employees to over 300 in a matter of months. During this time of trying to efficiently scale the craze and capture the lighting in a bottle, Robert was working 18 hours a day, seven days a week. Sillybandz partnered with the Kardashians, Justin Beiber, Hello Kitty, Barbie, Spongebob Squarepants, and Angry Birds for exclusively licensed bracelets. Licensing and consistently creating new packs to ship around the world was not easy, but with much determination, little sleep, and a great team, Robert kept up this pace producing a trend that outlasted most huge fads — over three years.
Thanks to the whirlwind Sillybandz fame, Robert has since been featured on “How I Made My Millions,” Bloomberg, CNN, MTV’s Made, Bravo’s Housewives of Beverly Hills, GSN-High Stakes Poker, as well as countless other TV shows and news features. After 2012, the blaze of the Sillybandz trend cooled off and Robert has continued inventing, investing, and launching many new products and brands. With his accomplished reputation as a master brand-builder and infrastructure for product development, Robert has developed many new products, and has also diversified into real estate, technology, and fast casual pizza enterprises.
For eight years, Robert had fun creating without thinking much about the bracelets that made his name. However, in 2019 with the rise of TikTok and Instagram influencers who are now the young adults who wore Sillybandz in their childhoods, Sillybandz is making a comeback. With over 1.6 Million Facebook fans, thousands of Google searches, millions of social media users hashtagging the nostalgic accessories, and media channels like Buzzfeed showcasing the bracelets, the Sillybandz craze is becoming a worldwide trend once again, bringing back so many precious memories for the 2000s generation that the bracelets are now worn by both children and adults. Through the years, Robert’s passions have remained the same: to continue creating meaningful products that provide him the financial ability to help make the world a better place.
Now more than ever, Robert recognized that humans need a product that will make the world a safer place. As a germaphobe himself experiencing the rising concerns of the COVID-19 virus, Robert felt it was vital to create a convenient way for everyone to have sanitizer available at all times. After brainstorming, many sketches, and homemade prototypes, he came up with the Sanitizer Bracelet™ the world knows, loves, and doesn’t leave the house with today! The Sanitizer Bracelet™ provides a sense of safety for those wearing it by giving you the comfort of knowing you will always have sanitizer literally “on hand,” with you wherever you go. Thankfully, Robert’s first-of-its-kind bracelet design is modern, minimal, and stylish. Now available on SanitizerBracelets.com for retail, licensing, and custom orders, the Sanitizer Bracelet™ is the must-have product in 2020 and beyond as we embrace the new normal of protecting ourselves and others from spreading germs.
After creating highly acclaimed products, many would think that Robert is ready to slow down and perhaps retire, but that’s not the case. When asked about what the future holds, Robert says, “Creative entrepreneur-types like me rarely retire. The fun in creating products is seeing everyday problems that society deals with and finding solutions that are helpful. I’ll never stop. I can’t.” Although he never plans on retiring, and instead continually creating and consulting other budding entrepreneurs and brands, he is excited to settle down with his long-time girlfriend (ME), head of his branding and social media department, and start a family. When asked about what he believes defines success in life, Robert smiles, “Loving what you do and doing it with people you truly care about is my greatest joy. That’s what makes my life meaningful.”
It’s time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!
The love of God inside of me honors the love in you. Namaste, My Friends.
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